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Savoring PlayTime: Nerf Gun Storage

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When you have a boy, you have a mess.  All the time.  Cars, Legos, and Nerf Guns, oh my!  I’m a big believer in letting kids play.  I’m also a very, casual housekeeper, but sometimes, you just have to clean it up! And by you, I mean the boy-child who made the mess.  Here’s our solution to enjoying an easy clean-up after an epic Nerf Gun battle:  an over the door shoe bag turned Nerf Gun storage.

Nerf Gun storage

I picked up this black shoe organizer at the Family Dollar.  You can get them at just about any store and just about any price point.  I doctored ours just a little bit.

Nerf Gun storage

I added an elastic loop over the top right pocket.  A few of our Nerf guns are taller and I didn’t want them to flip out of the pocket.  Here’s how:

Adding a loop to your Nerf Gun Storage bag

You’ll need:

  • 7 inches of 2 inch wide elastic
  • 2 inches of double fold bias tape
  • 2 snap sets
  • your sewing machine or a needle and thread
  • (You could do this with Velcro too, but I wanted the stretchiness of the elastic).

#1  Stitch 2 inch wide elastic (about 7 inches long) over the existing seam between the 2 far right pockets on the top row.  I placed the raw edge of the elastic up against the edge of the right pocket.  That way, the elastic will flip back over the seam. I used a stretch stitch.

Nerf Gun storage

#2 Use a small piece of double fold bias tape to re-enforce the right edge where the snaps will be. I didn’t stitch mine on.  Instead, I wrapped it around the edge and applied the snaps over it.

Nerf Gun storage

#3 Apply the snaps to the right edge so that the elastic can be unfastened, stretch around the larger Nerf Gun, and refastened. I don’t think it matters, but I always apply male ends of the snaps on the underside.

Nerf Gun storage

#4 Apply the coordinating snaps to the end of the elastic.

Nerf Gun storage

 

This Nerf Gun Storage bag was a birthday gift, so I finished it off with a little embroidery.  I was afraid the material wouldn’t hold up to many stitches, so I embroidered a piece of felt and stitched it on the top instead.

Nerf Gun storage

***Adam suggested I edit this to add that our house, the Nerf Gun storage bag is hung up on the wall, not the door.  It’s hung at about 5 feet, so that little ones can easily reach everything.  It is hung on screws that are anchored in the wall.  When it’s loaded, it gets pretty heavy and my favorite 3M strips just weren’t up to the task.  I should also add here that I have no affiliations with Nerf or Lego or even Velcro for that matter.  Just a boy-child and his friends!***

Isn’t it easier to savor playtime when the clean up is something the kids can do?  Now, will someone please tell me how to store all these Legos???

Savoring Family Time: How we Road Trip

How we Road Trip

I love a good road trip. In the past 3 years, we made 3 week-long trips of 2500+ miles. To travel anywhere out West, we have a full day’s drive across Texas. Plus, as a swim family we make at least one 3-6 hour trips each month. We’ve about got the road trip mastered. Here’s how we do it:

Make a tentative plan for your road trip.

We know where we plan to stop each night. We know our end destination. Sometimes, that’s all we know. Having a goal helps us track our progress.

How We Road Trip

Be free to change your plans.

On our most recent road trip, we watched the map and changed plans when we needed showers and laundry.

We’d planned to spend the night at Bottomless Lakes State Park, Oliver Lee State Park, somewhere in Carlsbad, Dog Canyon in Guadalupe Mountains, Big Bend somewhere (x2), and San Antonio somewhere. We actually stayed at Bottomless Lakes State Park, Oliver Lee State Park, Pine Springs in Guadalupe Mountains (x2), Stillwell Ranch (x2), and a San Antonio KOA. We changed our plans around Carlsbad and Guadalupe Mountains to give us a break from setting up and taking down the tent for a night.  We opted for Stillwell Ranch just outside of Big Bend because the campgrounds at Big Bend are booked solid during the end of March.  The KOA in San Antonio was chosen because we needed showers!!!

How We Road Trip

Brake for brown signs.

We love a good historical marker.  Or a cheesy tourist trap.  Christopher’s favorite stop on our DC road trip happened when we passed a road sign that said “Manassas/Bull Run”.  My exact comment was:  “Like the real Bull Run???”  After Adam confirmed it, we pulled in and spent a few hours exploring the famed battle grounds.  Last year, we discovered the beauty of the Painted Desert and Petrified Forest the same way.

How We Road Trip

During our last trip, a brown sign break took us to Lincoln City, NM, the place where Billy the Kid found infamy.  So neat, to remember that people of legend were also real people!

How We Road Trip

Picnic.

 

Road trips can be horrible on the diet and the stomach.  We tackle that with a little pre-planning.  We carry sandwich makings, chips, carrot sticks and cherry tomatoes, and trail mix.  And water, lots and lots of water. I have this great plastic bread box that keeps our bread from getting squashed.  We like Lays Stacks (in the plastic boxes) and Veggies straws for chips because they don’t get reduced to crumbs.  I also take extra plastic sacks for trash and a table cloth because you never know the condition of the picnic tables.  We will picnic at rest areas along the way, but we’ve also been known to make sandwiches on the tailgate while pumping gas.

How we Road Trip

Electronics.

This is a matter of personal preference for each family.  Here’s my take on it.  My kids are competitive swimmers.  Most weeks, they are in the water 10 hours a week, in addition to the 8 hours a day at school, church, and homework.  Electronics are used during the week for homework and reading.  That said, if they want to veg for a few hours in the car playing video games, I’m all for it.  They have no other time to enjoy games, so why not while driving through the never-ending expanse that is West Texas. I’ve found that kids self-monitor the time they are on the games.  During our past trip, they spent as much time reading as they did playing. I also keep Sharpies and notebooks handy, as much for my kids as for me!

How We Road Trip

Gas.

This one should be self-evident, but when you are traveling through rural areas (specifically West Texas, parts of NM, parts of Arizona, etc) know your mileage and know how much gas you need.  We’ve been known to stop every 100 miles to top off, just to be sure.

Savoring Family Time.

Road trips could be miserable, but they are also a great time to spend with family. They provide moments of experiencing just how witty our kids are. When the kids are buried in books and games, they provide Adam and I with time to visit. When the radio is on, I use the trip to brainstorm with my Sharpies and notebooks. Sights have lead to family conversations about science, history, politics, and God.

How We Road Trip

When was the last time you road tripped?  Any tips I need to know?

A Handmade Christmas

 

A Handmade Christmas.

What does that mean to you?  To me it means handcrafted ornaments, personalized gifts, and lots of extra love.

I always have a grand plan to create personalized pieces for each family member, but something always gets in the way, maybe time or money or even the thought that my work isn’t good enough.

This year, I have a game plan.   If you’d like to create your own handmade Christmas, you’re welcome to follow along with me.

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Let’s get started!

Let’s start with a few questions:  Why? Who? What? How? When?

  1. Why?  Why are you giving gifts?  Why this list of people?  Why DIY?
  2. Who do you need to gift to this upcoming Holiday season?  Family? Friends? Teachers? Your hairdresser?
  3. What do you want to gift?  Will everyone get gifts created around a theme?
  4. How are you going to craft these gifts?  What is your favorite hobby?  Do you love to sew?  Would you rather bake?  Is glitter more your style?  Do you want to learn a new skill or try something new?
  5. When are you going to do all this?  What kind of time do you have between now and Christmas (be honest)?

I’m taking the next few weeks and answering these questions myself.  I won’t answer all of them publicly because I do want my Christmas gifts to be surprises.   But, that “Why?” question:

Why am I giving gifts?

I know that for many people it seems super-early to be discussing Christmas gifts.  And it is, unless you are planning on creating them yourself.  But before I dedicate all this time and effort to creating gifts, let me tell you why I do it.

I give gifts at Christmas out of tradition.  We follow this tradition because it’s an opportunity to show my family and friends that I love them with a tangible presentsitem.  My kids don’t get lots of extras throughout the year.  It’s fun to spoil them with something significant at Christmas as a tangible way to say “I love you.”  They get a few small things (books, pjs, cds, new goggles or swim caps, art supplies, etc.) from Santa and then 3 gifts from us.  Usually these 3 things are a store-bought biggie (budget $75-100), something Mom-made, and a gift that the whole family will love (video or board games or movies).

I show love at Christmas because that’s what Christmas is all about.   I believe Christmas is the date we have selected to celebrate the earthly birthday of Jesus Christ.  The act of Jesus coming to earth as a humble human baby was an act of love as part of God’s ultimate plan for us.  You can read more about that here.  What better way to celebrate than to show love to my family and friends!

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The Weekend Before We Go Back To School 2014

So, I blinked and summer happened.  And now it’s over.  It’s the weekend before we go back to school!  Already.  Yikes!

Back to School Checklist

Back to school this year means:

1.   Monograms.  Lots and lots of monograms.  My new machine is getting quite the workout.  And I’m very excited about that.  While I’m doing a lot of the traditional monograms, this stacked monogram seems most popular this year with the boy Mommas.

Stacked Monogram

Girls are split between the traditional fancy circle and the preppier circle.  Which do you like?fancycirclemonogramcircle monogram

2.  Morning Routines.  I created these printables a few years ago and they are still in use around here.

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Morning Printable #2
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Morning Printable #1

The kids are expected to wake up, spend time alone with God, get dressed for the day, eat a good breakfast, make their beds, pack school bags and swim bags, and pick up any dirty clothes.  While our house was on the market, knowing the kids’ rooms were made up for day was so helpful!

3.  Lunches. This is always interesting.  We start off well, but by mid-October, it will be sandwiches.  Everyday.  5 days a week.  For the rest of the year.  I’ve turned to Pinterest for a few ideas this year.  Maybe we’ll make it to mid-Novemebr before we hit the sandwich stage! Follow Salinda’s board Back to School – Lunches on Pinterest.

4.  Printables.  I always love the printables we find at the beginning of the school year.  Check out this one for a great monogram.  These are a few of my favorite lunch box notes.

5.  Pictures.  Pictures.  Pictures.    Last year, I snapped a picture with my phone of the kids every day.  I uploaded them to instagram with a daily count.  At the end of the year, I found this great shop to print a collage for me.  Super quick too! It’s a fun memento from the 3rd and 6th grade year.  The kids are trying to think of something fun to do next year.